I retired to handle our disabled son who is 21. He is 6 foot tall and 280 pounds. With mental and physical disabilities and aggression, it’s all we could do. I am with him almost every moment except when he is in a special school or a man from church takes him once a month on the weekends. There is no such thing as checking in and out for me except for those two situations. Please exempt live in’s. It’s hard enough.