FACT: There is a shortage of QUALITY outside help.  Parents need to feel trusting of how and who is caring for their child…. so, most often always the responsibility to care for their loved one falls back on them, all whilst continuing to maintain a roof over their heads and keep food on the table, etc. (can’t be in two places at one time). This is a very stressful cycle.  Parents should always be given the right to choose how their loved one will be cared for, whether it be the parent(s), a family member, a friend, or an agency.  (Whatever works best for their situation). Please try to accept this fact!