Our organization has been working with families of transgender and nonbinary youth for over a decade. Family support is the number one protective factor for transgender youth. Fewer than 1 in 3 transgender and nonbinary youth found their home to be gender affirming. (thetrevorproject.org) It will be dangerous for many students to notify the parent/guardian about their gender identity without their permission.
It often takes time for a family to accept their child's gender diversity. It is sometimes a slow process in which they need time to seek quality resources and learn how to be supportive. When pronouns are respected and used, suicide rates are drastically reduced. Depression symptoms are reduced by 71% and thoughts of suicide are reduced by 34% (thetrevorproject.org). Just one truly supportive adult in a trans person's life can reduce self harm and thoughts of suicide. That one adult might be a trusted teacher or a school counselor.
If the proposed policies were truly about parental rights, then the rights of transgender and nonbinary students' parents would be respected. No one in any school (students, teachers, administrators, or community members) would be allowed to refuse to use a trans student's name and pronouns based on their own belief system. Instead, the school would require everyone to respectfully recognize each person in the manner they prefer, provide sensitivity/diversity training to overcome personal biases, and learn how to create a school climate that is welcoming to everyone. A sense of belonging, being addresses properly, having access to facilities and activities, and learning in an environment that is free from bullying and harassment is a right all students deserve. ALL Students needs to Include Trans Students. This policy takes away basic respect and dignity from transgender and nonbinary students and puts them in harms way.
Superintendent Balow, rescind the proposed 2022 model policies and maintain and urge VA Public School districts to adopt and follow the current model policies which actual protect transgender and nonbinary students. When all students do well...all students do well.
Suggested resource: Transgender Students in School Bathrooms and Schools in Transition are excellent comprehensive resources that can help all schools know how to implement the 2021 model policies. Each school can learn how to create a positive school climate, methods of supervision, and behavior expectations that will support all students.
Trans students have always existed. Trans students' rights should not be up for debate.
He She Ze and We, a 501(c)(3) organization in Virginia, proudly empowering families on the journey of gender identity through support, education, and advocacy.