I’m a mom of a trans male, and although my son knew I loved him and would support him, I was not the first person he came out to as trans. His high school class mates and teachers knew his chosen name and pronouns first and when I discovered that he was already being his true self at school, I was relieved to know he had that support. It actually saddens me to know that he lived for so long as someone he wasn’t, and he did so out of fear. He was not afraid of being judged. He was afraid of being attacked; of being physically harmed because he was trans. School was a safe place for him to start building the courage to face the rest of the world as his true self. Isn’t that what we want from our schools? To be known as the safest place for kids to learn, explore and become who they were meant to be?? Yes, kids’ homes should be the safest place on earth, with loving and supportive families, but we all know that’s not always the case. We teach our kids starting at a young age that they can trust their teacher/school to help them and protect them. LGBTQ kids shouldn’t have to fear a parent’s rage or betrayal from a teacher/school. Any parent that is angered over their child expressing who they truly are to friends and teachers, should be psychologically tested and attend parental training.
Our culture, to include our government, has always treated LGBTQ as second class citizens even though they’re no different from any other citizen that puts their pants on one leg at a time or pays their taxes! Being LGBTQ is not a choice and it’s not easy - a lot of times it’s scary. Please don’t make it even harder and scarier on these kids. It’s time to stop the abuse of power over the LGBTQ community and start focusing on keeping our schools the safest place for our kids to be by preventing school shootings.