Upon hearing about this proposed policy that targets transgender students, I was horrified. Requiring all this paperwork, legal acrobatics, and questing of a student in order to allow them to feel comfortable at school? This is setting children up for a life of both internal and external torment. These transgender children have the right to use whichever names they want to and whichever bathroom they feel most comfortable using.
Transgender children already have to face so much in terms of making friends, finding safe spaces, and navigating the cruel social construct that is public school. This policy is only set to make these already marginalized students feel worse. According to the Trevor Project, transgender youth are five times more likely to have attempted suicide and more than four times as likely to express fear of going to school as a result of their gender identity. If the controlling party moves forward with this bill, it sets in motion the circumstances for these statistics to become worse.
And this is not something as extreme as letting a five-year-old decide if they want gender affirming care. This is simply allowing a child to use the bathroom they feel comfortable using and being called what they wish to be called. It seems like such a small gesture of kindness that will go a long way in helping these children find they validation of their identity that they so desperately are seeking and deserve to have as human beings.
As I write this, I ask myself: How can the party of family values and family centered policy be alright with passing laws that may end up causing families to lose their child to suicide? If this law goes through, the Virginia Govenor and Legislature will have blood on their hands for every transgender youth in the state who makes the conscious decision to take their own life.
I leave saying this: If any politician in Virginia has one shred of humanity, please in the name of all that is good and right, vote against this bill and help to protect the children who are already so marginalized.