From the outset, the 2022 Model Policies disrespect and de-legitimize trans and nonbinary students' existence and lived experience.
While parents have a legitimate interest in guiding their children's upbringing, it stands to reason that students have the right to advocate for themselves. This applies to cisgender students as well: a student may, for example, ask to be called a specific nickname. ("Actually, I prefer to be called Bob." "I go by Roy." "Actually, I go by B.") A request to be referred to by a specific name does no harm and ought to be respected.
The same goes for pronouns. I have no idea what the policies mean by "prononus, if any". Everyone uses pronouns. If a student feels that it's hurtful to be referred to by a gendered pronoun, that student has the right to request that they be referred to by a different gendered pronoun.
The references to religion in the policies make no sense. Using non-gendered pronouns is not an attack on religious beliefs.
The reference to single-user restroom seems to deny trans/nonbinary students equal access to school facilities.
The reference to "biological sex" indicates a lack of understanding of what really constitutes sex (and gender, for that matter). Like it or not, science indicates that sex is not as clear cut as the Youngkin administration would like it to be. There is a full spectrum of expression of "biological sex." Additionally, school officials are not qualified to determine the biological sex of a student. The model policies essentially ask school officials to violate the privacy of students.
Transgender students are not people whose "gender does not match their sex". There is nothing wrong with transgender students. What's wrong is trying to shoehorn people into modes of expression that are harmful to them.
Transgender students' status and rights should not be tied to whether their parents have filled out the appropriate form.
The heart of the issue with the model policies is that they are dangerous to students. Often students do not feel safe coming out to their parents. Forcing students to live a role in school that does not match their gender experience amplifies the experience of gender/body dysphoria. This can lead to anxiety, depression, self-harm, and poor educational outcomes for students. The Youngkin administration is asking schools to promote bad outcomes for these vulnerable children.
The model policies are clearly written to pander to a conservative base. The fit into a pattern of demonizing/attacking phantoms, bogeymen, and vulnerable people in order to draw attention away from the real issues facing the education system and state government as a whole.
It does no harm to respect trans students. Please draft model policies that are based on respect, not cynicism. If you can't do that, step aside and let someone else govern.