I am just moved to Virginia from California, and now I am thinking of moving back.  It seems to me that this ABC board here is trying to tell people what to do, and how to act.  If I wanted someone to run my life I would get married.  I choose to run my own life, and if I choose to go to a gentlemens club and watch a beautiful lady dance, then that is what I do.  Please try and mind your own business.  By the way. as far as I can tell your business is alcohol, not morality.