To the VDOE,
Jesus warns, "But whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in Me to sin, it would be better for him if a millstone were hung around his neck, and he were drowned in the depth of the sea." There will come an ultimate judgement for all the perverse ways you attempt to groom children (or by allowing it to take place) that will be unescapable. What you are doing is NOT good, helpful, or morally or ethically right.