This is first of all not a government place to intervene in the private life of a child or his or her family this is for the parents to address.
Second you will install wrong values when you are asking the kids to keep secrets an be dishonest with the parents this is double standard and will create bigger problems as they become adults
Third kids are impressionable so for acceptance or peer pressure they will identify as someone they are not they don't have this in mine unless the message is view or heard over and over again and that is what liberals are doing with their agenda, now you see this everywhere kids tv shows, books , movies everywhere so STOP IT.