Va you need to do better!!! This whole fight of parents not being able to be a paid care provider for there minor children is absurd now a non family member as an EOR. We can’t find outside care attendants how are we supposed to find an EOR that is unpaid. Your restrictions and complete lack of understanding of our special children and the care they need is unbelievable. Most of these people need 24 hour care to begin with and you put a cap on if 40 hours a week also. Are you trying to push everyone into putting there children and loved ones in homes that don’t have enough care either? Do better allow us to take care of our families appropriately. Many states don’t have half of these requirements and restrictions. As soon as we can get out of va we will because of this insanity and how much of a fight it is just to be able to take care of our families!