a child going in to social service.is way beyond understanding for the child.they dont understand and there world is truned up side down.it is a mess in there mind.a home with a man and a women would be normal for the child.the only thing normal for them.a married couple puts a start of normal in there lives.anthor words not droped into a odd and unnormal world.its enough of what they go through with out adding more to there torn up world.and as they grow they count on truth and word of the people taking care of them.think of the children.they do grow up and become adults.they need normal lives.i know.i have seen it with my grandkids.its a long road for these kids.thankyou