This policy is shameful and is simply a cheap move to gain favor with a select, population that is trans-phobic. This policy has zero roots in any kind of real child protection. There is nothing in our current, more accepting, policies within several school districts that jeopardizes a parent’s right with the treatment of their child in the school environment. Current policies do not push the child towards any one gender identity, they allow for our teachers and the school to make student’s feel accepted in their everyday life.
If reality, this proposed policy will be severely harmful to our children. First and foremost, the proposed policy treats children who may have gender identity questions or are trans as something that is “wrong.” This will not just be a part of school policy, but the attitude the policy reflects will filter down to the student population if it is enforced. This will serve to project upon the student population that non-binary and trans students are not a respected part of society. Students will pick up on this and feel guilty about their own feelings or project the Anti-trans sentiment on their fellow students.
My child now identifies as non-binary and has recently become an adult. Their last year of high school their school was accepting in their choice of pronouns and in their new nickname. They felt accepted at school when they came “out” at school with support by their school and their classmates. This helped a lot with the depression they were battling at the time. They didn’t feel comfortable to telling their parents till later on that year.
I am extremely grateful to my child’s school and its environment for being supportive. My child has stressed to me that should this policy go into effect, we will likely lose children to severe depression and even suicide because they feel trapped and insecure in their daily life at school. School should be a safe space for students. Coming “out” at home is not always safe for some children. Why push for a policy that jeopardizes students in the one space that should be safe and accepting for them by inflicting the transphobic fear of some on the entire population. We should be better people in society today. For the last 30 years, gay and trans rights have been improving, what a rotten step backwards this policy would be.