I live in Fairfax County and my daughter attended public school here.
I am strongly opposed to the imposition of the new regulation of students' autonomy and discrimination against the rights of LGBTQ+ young people, especially transgender students in Virginia. The new rule uses the 14th Amendment as support for this action, not recognizing that the 14th amendment explicitly sought to guarantee the bodily freedom of formerly enslaved Americans, to support their autonomy and personhood. This is a policy that supports bigotry and harms young people and I truly don't understand how the government of any state can defend such actions. To stop teachers from exercising compassion and respect for their students' choices and requests to use a particular name or pronoun is cruel. To block students' right to freely explore and express their own identities is the opposite of what every school should be doing. Understanding oneself and one's place in a larger community is one essential goal of a well-rounded education, isn't it?Instead, the state seems determined to put new stresses and mandates on teachers, to deny the personhood of students, and to give in to one—just one—particular religion's view of the right way to be in the world. Virginia claims to be the birthplace of religious freedom and tolerance, and now are we the place where it dies?
Please reconsider and strike down this absurd and cruel new set of rules. If you don't, students will experience even more psychological pain than they have endured over the past few years of the pandemic, and some will take their own lives. This is born out in the statistics many other commenters have cited. Why do something you know will harm kids, when you have another path you could follow?
I'm the mother of a recent graduate of Fairfax County Public Schools and still know many wonderful kids, including transgender kids, who are contributing amazing things to their communities. All I can feel now is deep shame at what is happening in our schools today and sadness for all the kids who will attend in the future until this rule is struck down in the courts, which I hope happens as quickly as possible.