Many people have commented and shared data and opinions. One thing I think we all can agree upon is that the safety of all students is important. No child should feel afraid at school. Students should be able to speak with trusted adults at school if/when they are afraid or feel unsafe. Teachers can make all kids feel valued by addressing them respectfully and can easily avoid using a pronoun when speaking with students. Another issue discussed is restrooms. Obviously, the bathrooms at home are coed and using technology to monitor who enters and exits restrooms at school is not a heavy lift. In fact, many schools already have a monitoring system in place that doesn't invade privacy.
Another area in school buildings that has been identified as a place where safety can be an issue is locker rooms. We learned during COVID that closing the locker rooms decreased the number of referrals to the office for fights, bullying, and theft. I believe we should step back and make “dressing out” for Health and PE (HPE) optional in all schools. Athleisure clothing is worn to school more often these days and the kids can simply change their t-shirt after HPE if they sweat during class. This guideline has is in place in many school divisions after COVID guidelines were relaxed but not everywhere. I think we should re-examine why we moved backward to doing "what we always have always done". Participation has increased in HPE with student choice and more instructional time has been the result. Many HPE classes begin with a check-in and include topics related to safety, stress, kindness, and communication, to name a few. HPE is a course where the teachers include goal setting and the components of the Profile of a Virginia Graduate daily. These are important skills for all students.
As far as the inclusion of transgender students in athletics is concerned, the Virginia High School League abides by state policy that aligns with the NCAA.
I obviously don’t have all the answers, but I do think it’s time we focused on what is best for all students. We do not need to sort and put kids in boxes. One size does not fit all, as I think we can all agree. Sometimes, we adults create barriers where barriers don’t need to be.