I support Governor Youngkin's proposal to put parents back into their rightful place to guide and support their children. As a mother, a psychologist, and a former guidance counselor, I know it is necessary to keep parents as the primary decision makers as they are ultimately responsible for their child's well being. Good psychology and brain research tells us that the brain's frontal lobe is not fully developed until we are 26. This area of the brain is responsible for reasoning, planning, decision making, social and sexual behavior. That is why children need their parents guidance and support as they make decisions that will affect the rest of their lives. Although teachers and guidance counselors have important roles in our children's lives, they are not ultimately responsible for the child (feeding, clothing, educating, moral development, spiritual development, etc..). Parents should always be a part of the process and brought into helping to solve their child's problems. Attachment science tells us that the bond between a child and their parents is the most important in the health of a child and their ability to have healthy relationships in the future. To come between a parent and their child is to disrupt this important bond and to leave a child to greater likelihood of mental health problems and dysfunctional relationships.
My final comment is on the protection of male and female private spaces and sports. They must be separate to protect girls and women from sexual, emotional, and physical harm. Sex at birth is the only way to decide on which bathroom, locker room, or sports team a person may use or play on. Here are a few examples of the problems that occur when this is not done: North Carolina district forfeits volleyball games against school with trans player (msn.com) https://reduxx.info/male-sex-offender-identified-as-woman-to-access-womens-shelter-allegedly-raped-a-female-resident/ https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-10871945/Lia-Thomas-teammates-say-UPenn-told-lives-questioned-place.html.