I grew up in an abusive household that also, by happenstance, was fundamentalist Christian. Their religion didn't make them abusers but it did inform what set them off. I am gay. I knew that this had to remain a secret. If it didn't there would be physical and emotional abuse as a consequence (as an adult I found out they would still try emotional abuse). School was the place I was allowed to be myself. I had to be the perfect, quiet child my parents demanded at home but at school I could be more comfortable in my skin. I was able to be open with my friends but what's more I knew that there were a few teachers that were willing to listen to me as I tried to manage my own emotions and thoughts. I knew that I could rely on my teachers, the only positive adult influence in my life, when I needed the emotional support I could not get at home. This new guidance would remove that comfort from trans students across Virginia. Parental rights are fine and everything but there are some parents who don't have their child's best interest at heart (not just about transgender identity). This guidance will complicate that. If I had been trans and these rules were in place, I could not have leaned on my school for emotional support as I grew into an adult even though most of the support I needed was unrelated to gender or sexual identity. But how could you trust a person that can at any time be mandated by the state to tell others what you had told them in confidence. I know the cruelty is the point so it's useless for me to write this comment but please think about the damage that you will be doing to kids regardless of their identities. Not all parents have the best interests of their kids at heart.