As the parent of two elementary school children, it is my job to raise them to become capable adults who know their own minds and how to make decisions for themselves, among other things. I do this by exposing my children to a wide variety of information and varying viewpoints. I trust my children to be open and honest with me. They know that if they tell me something -- that something hurts, that they like or don't like something, etc. -- I will believe them. I trust my children to make up their own minds and to form their own beliefs about the world and about themselves.
My job is not to tell my children who they are. It is not to tell them exactly what sports to play, what books to read, who to be friends with. I trust them to make these decisions. So I also trust them to know if the body they were born with feels right to them. I trust them to know what pronouns feel right to them.
The Governor and the far right wing in Virginia are talking about parents' rights, but my rights as a parent are not being trampled on if my child wants to be called by pronouns other than those that match their gender at birth. My child's decisions are not about me. I am not so egotistical to believe I know better than my child about what feels right to them. I do not presume to know how they feel or to believe I have any right to dictate who they must be. This idea of parents' rights is a farce.
These new model policies from the Governor are a way to win points with the far right and are not about parents' rights. They are a political tactic and will do nothing but hurt innocent children. Think about that, these are children you are attacking. What sort of coward picks on kids?
We should be proud as parents to know we are raising smart, capable children who are empowered to make the best decisions for them. That is what every parent should want for their child. It is for this, and so many other reasons, that I strongly oppose the new model policies put forth by the Youngkin administration.