Everybody deserves a chance to be raised and loved in a family, regardless of the makeup of that family. There are those families with a mother and father. There are those families with one parent. There are those families with grandparents raising the child alone. There are those extended families that have EVERYBODY living together and raising each other. Regardless of the situation, EVERY child deserves to be loved. And those individuals who have large families just to get benefits, and you ALL know people like this, should be the ones that need to go through a process to see if they are fit to be parents. Those individuals that have the love and ability are being turned down because of other's stupidity and ignorance.