Totally, Terribly wrong.
The state does not have the right to keep secrets from parents about their own children—especially when it comes to intimate details on sensitive issues like gender and sexuality
Besides just being totally wrong, it is Totally wrong. Subjecting children to the propaganda of the state is the wrong just like it was under Hitler in Germany and Stalin in Russia. As is normal and proper, no one loves and cares for the welfare of children than their parents.
The policies proposed by the DOE should be fought against by all parents, even moving to another state if necessary.