I showed scientests, in the beginning of psychology (the foundation for counseling profession), that when a baby monkey goes to get milk from a wired non-soothing bottle environment, the monkey has a difficult time, and basically rejects or avoids the mother to the point of deadly consequences if he avoided the millk.  The monkey chose to stay with the comforting model 90% of the time. This shows the power of nuture and neglect on the human system.  If we don't give life and safety to our people, they die.  A very large percent of you counselors get life from a credible source other than CACREP.  I see you have many leaders ignore my obvious real scientific study results.   Please stop hurting your own people.  I'm sorry you couldn't learn long ago  - Harlow wire monkey experiment....